RESPECT
We like to be shown respect, and many believe it is a right but, as in the
case of most rights, there is a responsibility attached to it.
This responsibility needs to be understood in order for you to become
worthy of respect.
True respect does not come from what we do, as much as how well we
do it. This means that we are shown respect according to the virtues and
qualities revealed through our behaviour.
Respect is not a matter of supply and demand.
On the contrary, if people pick up that you are even slightly in need of
respect, they will usually turn away from you completely.
This is because the need to be respected indicates a gap
somewhere in your sense of self - and most people are so busy
trying to fill their own gaps, they get annoyed at the prospect of having
to fill someone else's.
Be suspicious of any desire on your part for respect.
Indeed, such thoughts are a sure sign that no one is giving it to you
anyway. The very act of trying to get respect from others proves you
unworthy of it.
Fill yourself with Godliness.
Let Godliness be visible in your life. Godliness makes you worthy.
Don't be upset if you are shown disregard. Speak to a third party to
check your behaviour. If you have done nothing wrong and your attitude
is right, understand that the situation is a test of your
ability to remain beyond the judgements of others.
Many such situations will come to test you. Understand them as
a test of your self-respect. They are a test of your self-love
and patience.
Fill all the gaps in your own sense of self by continuing to explore your
true spiritual worth. As this awareness follows through into action, you
will find it easy to respect others. When your are full,
it is easy to make other full. When your are full, you pass all
your tests. And passing all tests makes you worthy of the
respect of others.