COMPARISON, WITH OTHERS
Comparing your progress in self-development with that of others will
leave you vulnerable on three counts: you'll wither feel inferior, superior,
or impressed. All these states are dangerous because they
all disregard the underlying principle of our true connection with each
other - mutual love and regards, based on independently
generated self-esteem.
To protect yourself from this vulnerability, make sure that your attention
remains turned within, towards the spiritual experience of pure pride.
Staying centered in your elevated self-respect will help you remain
undisturbed by others around you. Keep asking yourself, "Who am I?"
"How would my spiritual personality respond to this even or person?"
This will help to centre you further, and allow you to enjoy the
successful efforts of others.