Deceptive love is love where there is no honesty in the heart.  It

creates dependency, and looks more like a deal than a relationship.

This kind of love has become like a drug.

We don't want love that is going to make us dependent.  Love should

be such that it makes honesty and truth grow. It is honesty that

shows us what love is and real love shows us what honesty is.

The way to free ourselves from dependency of false love is to

experience the fullness, the sweetness, of love that is true.   Replace

poison with nectar and it will be easy to recognise the worthlessness

of false love.  We should not just accept whatever love comes our

way - from here, there, everywhere.  If somebody wants to give you

love, first see what kind of love they are offering. Your intuition

should realise very quickly what kind of love it is.

To experience true love we should ask: Is my heart clean? Is it

honesty? Is it open? If it isn't, if my heart is still broken, I will not

be able to experience true love.

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